1. Healthy
2. Sleeps through the night
3. Obedient 
4. Proper manners
5. Respectful 
6. Quick learning 
7. Athletically gifted
8. Academically superb 
9. Witty 
10. Cute
11. Strong
12. Beautiful 
13. Parents that remain married 
14. Zuma fuckn Cum lawd 
15. A college education 
16. A respectful attractive significant other 
17. Well traveled 
18. Positive minded
19. Career oriented 
20. Married by 27
21. Buying first home by 30
22. Back to graduate school 
23. Having more than your parents had
24. Having a good savings account 
25. A set career 
26. 2 plus automobiles 
27. 401 k
28. Equity 
29. Having children by 32
30. Having close friends 
31. A child friendly dog
32. Weekends off 
33. Disney vacations 
34. Superb health insurance 
35. Holidays with a big family 
36. A new car every four years.
37. Yearly bonuses 
38. Zero credit card debt
39. A one off social media presence 
40. A healthy sex life
41. Date nights
42. Active children
43. Community involvement 
44. Body enhancements
45. Regular dental visits 
46. Yearly physicals
47. A gym and or country club membership 
48. A European vacation 
49. A summer cottage 
50. Or boat
51. All inclusive vacation 
52. Running 10ks
53. College funds
54. Christmas parties 
55. Respectful adult children
56. Elderly Parents
57. Time share
58. Grandkids overnights 
59. Retirement, 
60. Healthy 401 k
61. A sports car for weekends 
62. Holiday vacations 
63. Viagra 
64. Date nights 
65. Concerts in the park 
66. Winters in warm places
67. By daily phone conversations with your adult children 
68. Watching grandchildren graduate from high school 
69. Passing down family stocks, and money
70. Passing away in your sleep or from a brief illness 

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